For what exhibited behavior is unsuccessful. Bad behavior

Lindsay Lohan: Mean Girl
Lohan's favorite pastime is a game of cat and mouse with American justice. Will the alcoholic be able to withstand the conditions of the probationary period or she will be imprisoned again - that's the whole intrigue. In the summer, she escaped from the clinic where she underwent compulsory treatment, she was pumped up with wine, and when she returned, in response to the nurse's request to “breathe through a tube”, she made a huge scandal. Since then, the actress has continued her drinking tour of California's haunts. Most likely, the unrestrained revelry will end with community service. Although the judge hinted that Lilo is unlikely to get off with just a broom and a dustpan.

Matthew Fox: fight with a woman
In the series Lost, the hero of Matthew Fox, the surgeon Jack Sheppard, would never allow himself to offend the weaker sex, but in real life - please. First, the actor got drunk in a bar, and then went outside to hail a taxi. "Checkers" was not in Fox's field of vision, but the actor noticed the bus, which, as he then thought, would take him to the right place without any problems. Heather Borman, a female driver, was on the list letting people into the passenger compartment when Matthew appeared at the door, breathing fumes. Heather explained that the bus was booked for a private party and asked the actor to get off. In response, Fox hit the woman several times in the chest and lower abdomen. Obese Heather reasoned with the cross drinker in the jaw, which caused Matthew to bleed. E had time for Fox to recover, as the police already took him by the arms and took him to the nearest station.

Charlie Sheen: King of the Genre
46-year-old Charlie Sheen is no longer the hot guy he was in his youth. And yet, few can compare with him in the ability to put the world around him upside down. The recipe for a good Shin-style party is simple: you need to rent a hotel room, order prostitutes, buy vodka, cigars, cocaine and use it all as soon as possible. In February, such an orgy almost cost the actor his life. Charlie came to New York to visit his daughters from his first marriage to Denise Richards. Fulfilling his fatherly duty, Shin went to the Plaza Hotel, where he glued porn star Capri Anderson in a bar. Already in the room they were joined by four more prostitutes. After 36 hours of an alcohol-sexual marathon, the orderlies carried out a body that barely showed signs of life from the wrecked room. But Charlie Sheen wouldn't be the tough guy we know him to be if he didn't check out of the clinic the next morning, peppy as a pickle.

Naomi Campbell: Panther Transformation
Naomi Campbell should have been born the daughter of a Russian landowner two hundred years ago. Then she would be able to whip the serfs with impunity and drag them by the hair. However, the "black panther" was born in the CC century - after each of her tricks, she is forced not only to pay a fine, but also to hunch back in public works. After Naomi smashed her maid's head with her cell phone, the court sentenced the model to mopping floors in a garbage truck garage. For five days, the beauty scrubbed the "Augean stables", but she never gained restraint: she pressed her driver with her forehead on the steering wheel, attacked airport employees, scratched a random woman on the street ... It all ended at one moment: in 2008, in Cannes, Naomi met a Russian billionaire Vladislav Doronin, who did the impossible with the "black panther" - quickly turned it into a domestic kitty, quiet and affectionate.

Mickey Rourke: to hell and back
Mickey Rourke from an early age rotates among street hooligans, prostitutes, pimps and drug addicts. “As a child, I didn’t have a childhood. The second childhood came when I received the first big fee. The party dragged on for ten years - I drank, drank, drank without getting off my favorite motorcycle. And he spent the money he earned on the staff of assistants, bodyguards, accountants and hairdressers. For a whole decade, the actor lived in poverty. In fact, "The Wrestler" by Darren Aronofsky is not only a film-return of Mickey Rourke to the big cinema, but also a surprisingly accurate biography of the actor himself. In real life, what they call today the Brad Pitt of the 80s screwed up a lot. With tears in his eyes, Rourke says: "I was at the very bottom, but I was able to again become a person who knows how to take responsibility for himself and his actions."

Mel Gibson: mediator of the holy spirit
Anti-Semite, homophobe and alcoholic - these are the three "dark" incarnations of Mel Gibson. It is noteworthy that Mel inherited all three "diseases" from his father, a zealous Catholic. The first major scandal occurred in the summer of 2006, when "Mad Max" was arrested for drunk driving. Gibson then told the policeman that the Jews were the cause of all wars in history, and the Holocaust was a Zionist fiction. Such statements in Hollywood, where every second producer is Jewish, could not go unnoticed. Mel apologized for a long time and switched the arrows to his supposedly confused mind. When he was criticized for his homophobic remarks, the actor showed character: "If hell freezes over, then I will apologize to them." A loud scandal was accompanied by Mel's break with Oksana Grigorieva. Not wanting to pay child support, he hit the woman in the face and knocked out her tooth. Then-California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger compared Gibson to an oil slick that must be "neutralized" at all costs as soon as possible. Mel just shrugs his shoulders: he is convinced that only God has the right to judge him. “The film “The Passion of the Christ” filmed the Holy Spirit through me, and I was just a traffic controller on the road,” this is how the disgraced actor explained to journalists that he was chosen by God.

Courtney Love: The Merry Widow
The peak of hooliganism Courtney Love came in 1994. Either she tried to forget herself after her husband's suicide, or, on the contrary, she finally felt free. In any case, the world of music has never seen such a crazy tearaway. A shoemaker's speech and an evil look, a mouth smeared with bright lipstick and always leaking mascara - the day after Cobain's death, Love woke up the queen of grunge, and the press called her an alternative Madonna of the late 90s. Now Courtney is 47 years old, but she does not plan to change the ron and roll lifestyle for something more relaxed. The merry widow dresses like a port whore, lights a new cigarette from the bull of the previous one, and continues, as in her youth, to show her corrugated boobs left and right. “Rock remains mostly male fun. Ironically, all our attempts to express female sexuality most of all looks like a ridiculous strip show, ”Kourtney summed up, explaining to reporters the phenomenon of her success.

Russell Brand: Dangerous Jokes
By the age of 27, Russell Brand tried all the popular drugs, drank tons of alcohol and slept with two thousand women, after which he tied up with a wild life and became a Hare Krishna. However, the British failed to eradicate the hooligan habits. Not a day after the attack on the Twin Towers in New York, he walked into the MTV studios without wearing a Bin Laden costume. On another occasion, Brand read a live pornographic story; on a third occasion, Brand spun a public restroom visitor into masturbation and turned it into the plot of an evening television show. And the biggest scandal erupted three years ago. In one of the editions of the author's program of the comedian on the BBC, Russell did not wait for the 78-year-old actor Andrew Sachs to visit and decided to take revenge on him. While on live television, Brand called Sachs and left a message on his answering machine that he allegedly slept with his granddaughter Georgina Bailey, a member of the Satanic Whores dance group. From the dirty details, the honorable old man almost had a heart attack. A flurry of calls from indignant listeners followed, moreover, the behavior of the presenter was personally criticized by British Prime Minister Gordon Brown. When Russell was fired, he stated, "I've learned not to play jokes on people who don't have a sense of humor, because they can get you fired for it."

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One of the reasons for the participation of schoolchildren in street protests is the politicization of the school and the zeal of guardian teachers.

Russian teachers criticize the opposition in class. And schoolchildren and students record these monologues on video and post them on the Internet. At the rallies on March 26, even schoolchildren spoke out about the politicization of education.

Gleb, a 5th grade student in Tomsk, spoke with the words: "For the fact that you did not draw a picture about our government, they can put a deuce." Extra-curricular classes on civic-patriotic education are regularly held in schools. The participation of young people in protests and their preparation has become an occasion for local administrations, teachers and teachers to talk more often with schoolchildren and students about politics. In recent weeks, several videos have appeared on the Web, clearly demonstrating the degree of controversy.

The first conversations took place before March 26. One of the Bryansk schoolchildren was taken to the police station after a lesson because he reposted a video on the VKontakte social network from the page of a rally against corruption that was being prepared in the city. The reasoning of director Kira Gribanovskaya on this occasion about patriotism and citizenship was recorded by teenagers on video. According to her, schoolchildren do not have a “political outlook”, their own opinion and use “provocative sources” of information. Petition to fire the director on change.org. signed by 26 thousand people.

Students of the Moscow State Conservatory recorded a lesson on the basics of Russia's cultural policy on video. Associate Professor of the Department of Humanities Farida Kulmukhametova forced fourth-year student Daniil Pilchen to read out a text about the "fifth column" and a list of "traitors" of the country, downloaded from the Internet. The student ridiculed the content of the text, for which the teacher threatened him with expulsion. Shortly after the conflict, the teacher wrote a letter of resignation of her own free will.

The LETI freshman recorded the words of Renat Khaliullin, an assistant at the Department of Information Security, that Navalny is a US agent “who […] is working off the money of the Washington regional committee.” Khaliullin decided to express his political views during a programming pair. He noted that if Russia is compared not with Europe, but with North Korea, it can be called a democratic country.

In Krasnoyarsk, meanwhile, a teacher was forced to resign after showing his students a film investigating the Anti-Corruption Foundation about Medvedev's undeclared real estate.

Who is campaigning

According to the law "On Education", it is forbidden for employees of educational institutions to use educational activities for any political agitation and propaganda. It is not always possible to figure out what is patriotic education in the current situation and what is propaganda. At the “No to Extremism” forum, organized shortly after the March 26 protests, students were removed from classes and brought in centrally. The film of the same name was also shown there by a local TV company. Scenes of violence and street riots, footage of shooting the Kyiv Maidan are compared with protests against corruption and draw parallels with conflicts in the Middle East. The essence of the film: political protests are a threat to peaceful life. In the voice-over text, it is proposed to support Nikolai Merkushkin, who "rallied around himself representatives of various social groups who oppose those who wish to sow discord and confusion in the region."

I'm a teacher, that's how I see it

At school No. 114 in Samara, geography teacher and deputy director for educational work, Irina Gorbatenko, gave a lecture to “warn” students from participating in rallies, and showed eighth graders the film “No to Extremism” marked +16.

A student from Samara posted a video of the lesson on VKontakte with the comment “They kicked me and yelled at me,” reports Current Time. One can feel the high degree of controversy with which Irina Gorbatenko talks about the collapse of the USSR, national wealth, patriotism: poison, she will die on her own. […] As long as we are united, we are invincible. And we are trying to educate you in this vein ... "

Having started his speech with an appeal to schoolchildren to be kinder and not to show aggression, the teacher himself soon forgets about it. Gorbatenko says that he knows which of the guys participated in the rallies, and addresses this student in a raised voice, breaking into a shout: “Do you like it when everyone is together? When you're in the spotlight, right? […] against corruption in our country, it is necessary to use other methods, and not to corrupt the country.”

Further, Irina Gorbatenko comments on the film, but does not allow students to speak about what they saw. After a student remarks on one of the scenes in the film, where Ukraine is shown on the screen, the teacher says that “you need to know the origins” and lists the leaders of the CIS who, in her words, “kept” their countries. And he adds, addressing the student: “For some reason I knew it was you. I always thought there was something so disgusting about you.” And after a few minutes, he sends him to the director with a cry: “If you don’t want to watch, shut your mouth and turn away! But don't bother others, got me? […] So, march to the director from here. March from here to the director. Got up quickly! Do you like aggression?

Marina Grigorevskaya, director of the school, was, in her own words, not ready to comment on the situation at the lesson: “We need to figure it out first. It hurts. I can't describe my feelings to you." The director told Novaya Gazeta that they had not seen the 16+ marking (the first frame of the film). "The conversation was not about the rally, but about everything that is happening in the country." The director explained the decision to show the film with the “vision of the teacher”. It was not possible to contact Irina Gorbatenko, according to the director, she went on sick leave due to a stressful situation. The student wrote on his page on VKontakte that on April 6, after a conversation between his parents and the director and teacher, Irina Gorbatenko apologized to him.

At the rally "for cookies and tea"

“They steal everywhere,” a teacher in general physics at Tomsk State University outlined his thesis and backed it up with a quote: “If there is no corruption in the state, then no one needs this state.” He called those who came to the rally freaks and advised them to choose another “way of earning money, for which you will not be ashamed later, in five, ten, fifteen years.” The speech of the teacher was recorded by student Igor Kamyshev and published on Youtube.com.

Igor is not sure that the conversation was initiated by the administration. The student told Novaya Gazeta that university staff often allow themselves to speak on various topics during classes: hell."

According to Igor, the educational institutions where he received his education are excessively politicized: “In one of the schools, the life safety teacher was convinced that a satellite was being launched to monitor Ukraine. “Who is in Ukraine? Americans! At the university, they are trying to gather us for a rally “Crimea is ours” for cookies and tea, last year they promised to close passes for physical education.”

"You are my future Russia"

The situations filmed on video are not the only example of the politicization of education. When Elena Petrova (name changed at her request) studied at Moscow School No. 1375, recording teachers on camera was not yet a trend. The girl said that teachers constantly expressed political views, and local officials, during a visit to the school, explained the investigation about Prosecutor General Chaika as “intrigues of the West”:

“Still, I don’t think that agitation in the classroom is planted by the administration from above. At my school, the history teacher held liberal views, but in law classes you could hear about how “America wants to destroy our country for the sake of raw materials”, and we must be responsible citizens and not “be led by Western propaganda” or that the Slavs discovered America .

According to Elena, the teacher also drew examples of compliance with the Constitution from real life: she gave the legitimacy of the elections, spoke about the information war. She saw it as her personal duty to educate patriotic citizens:

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To help your child change behavior, the first step is to shed all of your emotions.

Children are all different, they are already different in the womb: one calmly lies to himself, gently moving his legs, and the other kicks, as if rushing to freedom: “Well, let me out, finally!”

Poor behavior

“Your child is behaving badly, take action”, “!”, “Your child is constantly fighting!” "Your child is misbehaving again." Familiar? Some parents of other words do not have to hear about their child.

Child misbehavior? Let's find out! How to avoid not to hear phrases about unsatisfactory behavior? Hiding from caregivers and teachers? Will not work! Yes, and this will not change the situation. Maybe learn how to respond correctly to such comments and try to help your son or daughter correct the behavior?

Children are not misbehaving...

Before you help your child correct the behavior, you need to find the answer to the question: “Why does the child have bad behavior?” Answering this question is not as easy as we think. It may even be impossible! Why so categorically? Do not know? Yes, because we adults do not want to accept the obvious: it is not children who misbehave, but we, adults, mistreat them.

Moms and dads seem to be madly in love with their children. This is not disputed! As well as the fact that parents constantly reproach their children for something. Poorly washed the dishes, scattered things and did not clean up on time. I got a three badly, a deuce - punished. Got a five - well done! You can if you want! The child is trying to do something, go away do not interfere. "Mom, talk to me?" No time to go to work! And so on and so forth. And then we say: “! Doesn't know how to behave at all! It can only get on my nerves!”

What Not to Do for Parents

Bad behavior in a child, maybe try to change the tactics of education?

What should parents not do so that no one complains about the child that he is behaving badly?

• Blame it all the time
• Don't trust
• Offend with words and deeds
• Doubt everything he says and constantly double check
• Handle negative current words: “No”, “Never”, “Don’t”, “Don’t you dare” and so on.

As practice shows, most often the child misbehaves unconsciously, not on purpose. He just wants to get the attention of adults. Behind his bad behavior are hidden only understandable feelings for him.

Psychologists' explanation

What do psychologists say? What explanation do they find? Psychologists identify four reasons for bad behavior:

• Struggle for independence when parents are overprotective
• Attention struggles when children feel they are not getting enough attention
• Loss of self-confidence when a child does not believe in himself
• Revenge or protest

Work for parents: understand, forgive, accept, correct.

Parents are the first people

How to avoid the trouble associated with bad behavior? The first thing to do is find the . And then for a long time and purposefully educate, or rather, work on shaping the personality of a son or daughter.

The child must feel the love of his parents, and be sure that he is loved, he is necessary, he is the main part in the life of his parents. To achieve this, you must accept your child as he is, with all the advantages and disadvantages. Relations with the child should be built on mutual respect and a certain subordination.

Most importantly, children should always be sure that parents are the first people who can always be trusted, and that they will always understand and support, no matter what happens. The child should know that parents will be upset when they see a “deuce” or “bad” in the diary. They will not punish, but they will worry, and will try to help correct the situation. Perhaps they will read a “lecture”, but not out of malice, but with the aim of understanding it so that this does not happen again. They won't stop loving! Only every entry in the diary about bad behavior can add gray hair to parents.

Of course, it is much easier to yell at a child and even hit, but this will not bring any results, except for anger and wasted nerves.

Child misbehavior? Maybe try to change the tactics of education?

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Parents play a decisive role in the development of successful tennis players - this is an axiom. The chances of a player reaching their full potential are even greater when the parents of a young athlete cooperate with the coach. Unfortunately, there are cases when parents, wishing their child only good, slow down his development. Let's look at this in more detail.

People tend to err. Players make mistakes, coaches make embarrassing mistakes, parents, as a rule, are also not without sin. The most common problem for many parents is lack of knowledge. They spend a lot of money on a professional coach, go to a tournament and ... safely ruin all the work done by the player. And they do it unconsciously.

Adults forget that the tournament is a stressful experience for every player and their actions sometimes only increase this pressure. Tennis is largely a mental game in which emotional control and the ability to deal with stress are critical skills. Parents who do not understand this are like an invisible opponent off the court that their child needs to fight regularly.

Incorrect body language Players learn to behave properly between draws and many parents would do well to do the same. From a player's point of view, proper body language helps focus, control emotions, and create a strong image for the opponent. On the other hand, body language is a crucial form of support that a tennis player needs in difficult moments of a match. Behaving properly while watching a fight is a skill that many parents lack. Look at the coaches of professional tennis players - they never show disappointment or dissatisfaction with the game of their ward. Only support and confidence, but not anger!

Pointless instructions The tournament is a test of all the skills acquired by the player during the lessons. Tennis players work hard every day on the court to gain more advantage over their opponents. The role of the coach is precisely to teach the player responsibility, the ability to independently find a solution when the course of the fight is not in his favor. Many parents do not understand this and start giving unnecessary advice right during the match.

Actually, it's a scam. The essence of a tennis match is to see who has more skills and who can use them more effectively to win the match. If parents begin to pour in recommendations during each transition, then, in this way, they automatically wean children from looking for solutions to their own problems on their own. Such “support” will help the player win the match, but will not improve his skills in the long run. The absence of such guardianship immediately affects the players when they begin to travel on their own. Without the help of their parents, they are not able to win a single match, because they do not have responsibility and problem-solving skills. In order not to repeat this mistake, talk to your children after the match. Do not do this during a duel, because you will only harm your own child!

As long as he wins, he can do anything Another wrong pattern of behavior that many parents sin. As long as their child wins matches, they are allowed to break rackets, act rudely, or eat junk food. Dividing the game into “wins are good, losses are bad” is fraught with serious problems in the future. And all because this assessment is not objective. A player can lose a match, but still leave all the forces on the court. Should he be punished for this? Teach your kids to give their best in every game, no matter the outcome. The defeat will not be so bitter if the tennis player understands that he has done everything in his power.

As a result, we note that it is very difficult for tennis players to build a successful career without the participation and support of their parents. Relations with them are sometimes good, sometimes bad, but players always need family support. Only in this way can they focus on sports and reach their full potential.